Motivational Toughts
Learn How To Think Outside Of The Box In Five Seconds Or Less
The other day, I gave a talk for a very powerful group of healers and coaches. I felt so fortunate to have been invited, and I wanted to make sure that I truly understand what their needs are and customize my presentation accordingly. As always, I had prepared my Powerpoint Presentation, and was looking forward…
Read MoreWhat Is Your Success Profile? Knowing This Can Change Your Life.
In a recent workshop for transformational coaches and healing professionals, I asked the participants: “Who of you is familiar with the law of attraction?” Most people raised their hands. “Who of you beliefs in it and practices it?” The hands stayed up. “Who of you has a million dollars?” Silence – then laughing. Confusion…. “OK,…
Read MoreWhy Your Story Matters To Us
Who would you be without your life’s story? What character would you have? What abilities would you be aware of? Which opportunities would you take? Think about it for a minute. We all have stories that we would like to get rid of, in fact, I have never met a person who hasn’t been through…
Read MoreFeeling Undeserving – An Epidemic Amongst Healers And Coaches
Sometimes I wonder if there is an epidemic that is going a round spiritual entrepreneurs? Is it mindset, trauma, limiting beliefs? Why are so many feeling undeserving of getting paid what their contribution to the world is worth? Why do they want so much for others, for people they care for and want to help,…
Read MoreWhy People Prefer Dreams Over Goal Setting, And What To Do About It
Something strange happens when we decide to really work on living our dreams: The energy changes, and dreams turn into goals. They now need a strategy, they become tangible. Dreams feel lofty, beautiful, endless. Goals are measurable, tangible and doable. When this happens, people need to release any sense of being a victim. They just need…
Read MoreFind Your Niche or: What Would You Do To Save A Loved Ones Life?
I’d like to share with you what happened on Friday over dinner. Last weekend, I was in New York to meet with my coach Monica Shah and my amazing Revenue Breakthrough Sisters. These Masterminds are always intense, high focus, transformational and move all of us forward quickly. Since we are spending all day working on…
Read MoreThe Art Of Vulnerability
As a spiritual entrepreneur, your business is an extension of who you are. Your business brings out the best of you. And it brings out the worst of you. In your business, you can’t hide. You can’t pretend to be someone else. At least not for long. For many transformational entrepreneurs, this is a very…
Read MoreA Good Start For Tapping On Grief Part 3 – EFT for Sandy Hooks, Newtown, CT
Yes, I love reframing in EFT, but when we just start with someone who is going through unspeakable amounts of grief, it can feel intrusive to the client.
Where can one begin, when the grief is so overwhelming that there is no solution, to “positive outcome”?
When a family looses a child, it is hard to find meaning and a “higher purpose”.
Trying to see the good in the bad can be very premature and feel violent to the victim of such grief.
I recommend to begin the tapping process by simply working with the physical symptoms: the pain, tension, knots, tightness that always shows up when we are in stress. Addressing them with skill and insight can bring much relief without forcing the client to have to talk about their story or feelings when everything is still so new and overwhelming. Please click on the “read more” button to learn more about this…
It Happened, And I Am Sorry…. EFT For Sandy Hook, Newtown, CT
Giving the unspeakable grief that we are now experiencing, not just in Newtown, but all over the world, I am receiving lots of requests how we can best help with EFT. I’d like to share with you that holding space for unconditional acknowledgement without judgment, and without jumping into “fixing” the person, is essential. Acknowledgement comes before healing:
“It Happened – You Are Right – And I am So Sorry That It Happened.”
It takes courage to hold space for someone in unspeakable grief. But transformation can only come, when the acknowledgment and healing is done.
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